Clayton Echardis opening up about the tougher parts of beingThe Bachelor.
Echard’s season began airing on ABC earlier this month, and since then, he said the criticism he sees on social media has started getting to him.
“I think at first it was kind of quiet so I was able to respond as much as I could and I’m very just appreciative for the whole opportunity so I wanted to be able to let people know, ‘Hey thank you for reaching out, it means a lot,’ " he said on Tuesday’s episode ofBachelor Happy Hour.
The former NFL player then noted that he is watching his season for the first time “with everybody else,” reminding viewers that he was not aware of everything that was said or happened throughout filming.
“I see people that are coming after me and my character and saying ‘This guy has terrible judgment, why wouldn’t you respond to this?’ And the answer is simple, do you see me in that picture?” Echard said, explaining that if he’s not in the scene, he likely doesn’t know what went down.
“My mom is so very supportive, so excited, she’s always texting me but the sad part about it is she’s taking a lot of this criticism worse than I am,” he said. “I haven’t been too excited about that. I’ve taken it a certain way, but my mom is really, really struggling with it and I tell her to just get off social media and she can’t do it either, she’s so curious.”
“It’s driving her absolutely wild and I think that’s just why, if anyone watches this and thinks about typing a negative comment, realize that it’s not just me that you’re affecting, it’s my loved ones, you’re affecting my mom,” he added.
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Echard went on to say that his mental health, as well as his mom’s, have suffered as a result, and he urged people to think twice before posting a hurtful comment.
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“While it has been such a phenomenal experience, while it was so exciting to get that call to be the next Bachelor, I’m now seeing that the hardest part is actually not so much the show, it’s the aftermath — now watching it with the public,” he added.
The Bachelorairs Mondays (8 p.m.) on ABC.
source: people.com
