Lala Kent and Randall Emmett.Photo: Kevin Winter/Getty; Manny Carabel/Getty

Lala Kent Randall Emmett

Lala Kent can genuinely say she’s “happy again” after her split from ex-fiancéRandall Emmett.

During a Q&A on her Instagram Story Wednesday, a fan asked the 31-year-oldVanderpump Rulesstar how she’s “staying so strong” after the breakup.

Emmett, 50,proposedto Kent in September 2018, buttheir 2020 wedding planswere delayedto 2022due to the ongoing coronavirus pandemic. The pair — whowelcomed daughter Oceanin March 2021 —called off their engagementthis past October.

“Obviously I get a lot of strength from my daughter but beyond that, I think strength comes with knowing your worth, with or without someone,” the Give Them Lala founder wrote on her Instagram Story, perPage Six. “The moment I saw who that person really was, and the mask had finally fallen, I knew I was better off and he never deserved me. That feeling gave me power.”

Added Kent, “Even though there are moments I go ‘what the f—,’ I find strength in the fact that I am happy again. I recognize myself in the mirror again.”

Lala Kent and Randall Emmett at the Midnight in the Switchgrass premiere.Frazer Harrison/Getty

Lala Kent and Randall Emmett attend the Los Angeles special screening of Lionsgate’s “Midnight in the Switchgrass” at Regal LA Live on July 19, 2021 in Los Angeles, California

After their split, Kent repeatedly accused Emmett of cheating on her with multiple women.

“It’sbeen kind of repeated behaviorthat I have found out about,” Kent recently told Andy Cohen on an episode ofWatch What Happens Live. “And it’s not just one person — it’s many. I believe it started after I got sober, and it’s just … I don’t know how I didn’t see it.”

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Currently, Kent is easing back into dating — and justwent on her first datein a group setting.

“It was amazing. I had a lot of fun,” she said during a Galentine’s Day-themed livestream for Amazon Live on Tuesday. “I know I’m definitely not ready to date just one person. I want to continue having fun and that’s what it is.”

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source: people.com